Today I want us talk about "LOYALTY" . This is a virtue that the word needs to talk about. I weep in my heart when I see family, friends,colleagues fight and kill themselves over nothing!!! To be loyal is to love , trust and honesty. Before I proceed, I'd love to ask what Loyalty means to you?
I once had a friend, whom I so much Love and cherish, oh mehn, I did the unimaginable for her, you would think I'm a lesbian cos of the way I defended her. Even God knows I really did love her, like we spiced each other up. As at the time I met her, I was in need of a friend cos I always envied people who posted "friendship goals ,bestie ,bff " etc. She was a really cool and lovable person. Fast forward to the heat of our misunderstanding, I told her to come to my city so we could celebrate her birthday, I wasnt really financially buoyant ,just wanted to reciprocate her kind gestures to my last birthday, I didnt mind going broke for her. She came along with her bestie in whom I supposed was gonna foot her bill. It was supposed to be a 2days hangout. After the first day, I was finacially exhausted as I ended up footing their bills,couldnt cope for a second. Gbam!! Didnt know I was a fool all along, she said tons of horrible things about me, spilled out my secrets, blocked me off every social sites. I couldnt cry!!!!
Rewards from a one sided friendship lol!!!
Needed to retaliate back, I did say hurtful stuffs to her reminding her of everything I did for her. It's didn't stop there, I told her secrets to my sisters, bf, who ever wanted to hear cos I was hurt.
I did this to every freaking person I quarrelled with. I discovered I have never been LOYAL, my LOYALTY ended when I had a beef, tried to cover it up with me being human and imperfect blablabla.....
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