LOYALTY

 Hey fellas, its been a while, so sorry for my inconsistency, took a break, I'm back now .I guess I'm forgiven?. Lol!!!
Today I want us talk about "LOYALTY" . This is a virtue that the word needs to talk about. I weep in my heart when I see family, friends,colleagues fight and kill themselves over nothing!!! To be loyal is to love , trust and honesty. Before I proceed, I'd love to ask what Loyalty means to you?
I once had a friend, whom I so much Love and cherish, oh mehn, I did the unimaginable for her, you would think I'm a lesbian cos of the way I defended her. Even God knows I really did love her, like we spiced each other up. As at the time I met her, I was in need of a friend cos I always envied people who posted "friendship goals ,bestie ,bff " etc. She was a really cool and lovable person. Fast forward to the heat of our misunderstanding, I told her to come to my city so we could celebrate her birthday, I wasnt really financially buoyant ,just wanted to reciprocate her kind gestures to my last birthday, I didnt mind going broke for her. She came along with her bestie in whom I supposed was gonna foot her bill. It was supposed to be a 2days hangout. After the first day, I was finacially exhausted as I ended up footing their bills,couldnt cope for a second. Gbam!! Didnt know I was a fool all along, she said tons of horrible things about me, spilled out my secrets, blocked me off every social sites. I couldnt cry!!!!
Rewards from a one sided friendship lol!!!
Needed to retaliate back, I did say hurtful stuffs to her reminding her of everything I did for her. It's didn't stop there, I told her secrets to my sisters, bf, who ever wanted to hear cos I was hurt.
  I did this to every freaking person I quarrelled with. I discovered I have never been LOYAL, my LOYALTY ended when I had a beef, tried to cover it up with me being human and imperfect blablabla.....

    Guys!!! Loyalty is a KEY virtue we must possess as humans. We need each other,no matter the food we have been served (sweet,salty,bitter). I realized my weakness and channelled my energy to working on its .Today ,I thankful for growths and peace of mind. If you feel your Loyalty is questioned , please work on its. As little as the word is, its affects a large parts of our human relationship. In my next  write up , I'd recommend dome books(written and audio) that aided my growth.  Kisses

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SUCIDE!!!! No the bastard ain't worth YOU

Hello amazing people, hope your week wasn't too stressful? Mine was exhausting but hey weekend got me smiling ☺️. So today I'd like to celebrate you all for being ALIVE despite the storms that life approached US with. You rock, I hope this vibe doesn't die 😘
   A quick one today😉
At some point in my life I felt I was CURSED, everything seemed HOPELESS, I'd cry myself to sleep,  I  hated having people around, Oh!!! I felt I wasn't good enough to be alive, like I was a mistake, poor grades at school, nothing interest me, not love, sex, family. Inshort I was in  great debts and got embarrassment on  daily basis . Worst part was whenever I wanted to offer a service online, I was declined because I'm from a third-world African Country. Damn! I fucking didn't chose this LIFE , FAMILY, STATUS  or NATIONALITY
I just wanted a NORMAL LIFE!!!! where I could afford to pay my bills, be comfortable and happy .Since all this seemed impossible, SELF-PITY became my BEST FRIEND 😒. At this stage, I lost my self esteem, shiit!! I  envied successful people, didn't care about my looks ,I was extremely TOXIC and bitter!!!!!!!!!!!!, I believed God was wicked, maybe he had his own favorites well I just wasn't, you know I sought for rehabs, Lol I was too broke to afford any drugs, so I just wanted my space, TONS of people I loved all backstabbed me even to the point where my appearance disgusted them terribly
Mehn!!! If you have been here and still pushing, you are GOALS 💞. I was sick and broken, I felt betrayed,used,fooled , name it , anything depressing
   Four days after or one week can't recall, sometime in  July, The death of a family friend just triggered ME to end this once and for all. I tried taking poison , I was scared to die but I felt it was the best choice, Iollll I wanted to but nigga's coward mind won't let her😏
   Fast forward to Five months after, I'm grateful I didn't take that step. The journey was rough but it's didn't kill me. I found out that I'm the reason why I wanted to commit suicide. If SUICIDE were a person or situation do you think he/she would kill himself just so you can REST!!! Hell no, he won't, that's why his instilling it in YOU. Suicide glows because we give it's STRENGTH from our THOUGHTS and pamper it with EMPATHY.
  Problems and challenges are spices of life, however some have it RAW( peppery and salty)  and others have a taste of it ,all in their different times with the lesson of EXPERIENCE . Take a look at yourself, why do you feel you ain't worth it, you're broke?, you're been diagnosed with kidney failure or other health related issues ?? your truamatised, homeless, Jobless, heart-broken,Divorce,  paralyzed,  obesed , in an unhealthy relationship, failed in a lot of businesses, lonely, handicapped, drug addict , feel inferior ,depressed, you got duped,raped, abused or deserted ? The list is endless 😞
    All this doesn't WORTH you taking your PRECIOUS life, remember it's doesn't solve the problem, you only RAN away from your RESPONSIBILITY. Brace up, be strong and positive, Life is an  attitude,take the right attitude towards your happiness, stop being a mediocre welcome CONTENTMENT. Life is TOO short to be unhappy, if LIFE could be bought oh!!! The world will merry at every given situation.
Why then place your problem above your joy and happiness. Hey !!!! Wake up the world we are is a battle ground, nobody sleeps in the battlefield. STAND UP against all vices. If you are in a toxic relationship please catwalk out of it. Your joy is paramount to EVERYTHING. You are special, you are your god, you deserve too be happy . Do you know some people would give anything to have your legs, hands,sight,spine,heart,liver,kidney , body, freedom,  name it even YOUR LIFE. See you are a great ASSET place VALUE and appreciate your self more, be around positive people, be driven, work well, think less,pray more,glow in optimism and more importantly say sweet words to yourself every single minute, make it an habit.
  Welcome to a new phase of your life, be your best version 💋💋💋

                 Talk to Keren, I care
  

   
 

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YES, YOU CAN

Have you ever had this feeling that nothing good can ever come out from you? or you give way too much to people and get bull shited in return by close friends, partners even family. Mehn!! that shit is painful  it's even more worse when you just BROKE!!!! 

It's like the whole world is upon you, looking at the commitment you have to settle. And those annoying folks are living life like nothing happened and you just feel like fucking their ass up. If you have been there and you are still ALIVE  pushing it ,still healing of course. I celebate YOU like TONS of peeps have gone gaga even to the point of death, while others find refuge in rehabs and all.

TERRIBLE right

Sometimes I ask myself why we need people? If a greater part just betray, write us down with toxic words, steal,cheat, inflict emotional pains on us even to the point of we losing our self worth  . And to think we have gone our ass out to please them and keep the vibes going.

  But then again I've come to realize that the only way to remain victors is to keep winning. It's freaking hard and almost impossible, but you gotta let them know that they only crossed your paths to serve you "experience". The meal "experience" is a sour one, it's a sweet and bitter one that MUST be tasted by everyone . How you get your nutrients from this is when you patiently learn from it
  How?

First, MOVE ON, guys this is the most difficult stage but you have got to, you know why, the world doesn't care about your emotions, they don't care about your life, once you die ,the world goes on ,they mourn you for an hour and tadaa!!! back to their HUSTLE . They are only after their INTEREST and once you become a non entity they throw you out. 

Having nailed this, place yourself as your PRIORITY, do good not at your CONVENIENCE , ask yourself if these peeps are actually worth it, you not a MESSIAH, be targeted, embrace self-love, do things that makes you happy might be vacations, clubbing,sex, dancing, cooking etc.Also, move with positive people, don't get to involve cos you might get fucked. Just be YOU. Trust me you would be more happier and full filled.

You are too good to let's no motherfucker make you feel less. Everyday hundreds of people die with their visions cos of many depressing cases, the world only remembers very FEW . Be the FEW and leave a LEGACY.

The joy of living is having to pass down something uplifting to others.
You can, you I mean you, YES YOU CAN overcome
Have a blessed week ahead 

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Welcome to moments with Keren

Hello beautiful people, the aim of this blog is to shape you to being the best version of yourself. Life alone throws us problems at gifts, but how do we survive this and still get that happy spirit radiating everywhere? It's takes a second to lose one's life and tadaaa! the whole world moves like nothing happened. Happiness is key. Kisses

Talk to Keren, your happiness is "Paramount"
Let's do this TOGETHER

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